This week, I will indulge in the wonderful world of role playing; a kinky element that could be missing from what may otherwise be a very enriching sex life. .Many of us teeters on the brink of playing fantasy roles, but I simply love it. You can’t deny a bit of role-play does add that extra sizzle to your bedroom romp. Some call it escapism, but so what? If it’s fun and your partner is willing, you should experiment. I call it my passport to sexual nirvana.
Being able to play out my fantasies together with my partner is like breaking down a big barrier in our sex life, and it made us feel so much closer. After all, we’re showing each other aspects of our personalities that no one else ever sees. It allows me to unleash my inner sex Goddess and become far less inhibited.
Nothing says naughty or sexy quite like a French maid outfit. Not too many men would disagree about this fantasy – coming home to find their lover bent over with a feather duster wearing a slinky black dress, a petticoat and a thong. Another sure hit to get the man’s heart racing is a sexy nurse or a goody-two shoe teacher.
And my all time favourite would be the Secretary and Boss. Sexy tight mini skirt paired with black stilettos, with him sitting behind the desk, writing a letter. I sat opposite him, notepad in hand, shirt unbuttoned to a fairly indecent degree and legs slowly spreading, wearing no undies. Ke-chiing! Instant hard-on! We ended up having great sex and I was screaming his name from the depths within.
But I have to admit getting into role play comfortably can be quite a challenge at first. You have to be able to admit to each other the roles you fancy playing. Test water with a bit of dirty talking and get the mood rolling by choosing the costumes together.
Maybe the role suggested hasn’t appealed to your partner yet, but don’t backtrack. I say, get into the mood and lay it thin. Don’t worry about an Oscar winning performance because the fun part about this is that you can laugh and have a good time whilst doing it. Best of all, it’s extremely liberating.
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